The world watched with bated breath as one of hip-hop’s most prominent power couples, Cardi B and Offset, navigated a tumultuous relationship for nearly seven years. Now, with the dust settling on their latest separation and a divorce pending, Offset is finally speaking out, and his words are stirring up more than a little conversation. In a recent interview, the 33-year-old rapper didn’t mince words, delivering a surprising and definitive statement about his future and his views on love and commitment.
For many, a breakup, especially a public one, is a time of reflection and, often, a search for new love. But for Offset, the chapter on marriage seems to be permanently closed. When asked if he would ever consider walking down the aisle again, his answer was swift and absolute: “Not for me. I’ve done it already. I’ve got three kids with her. It’s like a mission accomplished.”
This simple, powerful phrase, “a mission accomplished,” speaks volumes about his perspective. It’s a sentiment that suggests marriage was less a lifelong dream and more a phase he went through, a significant life event he has completed. It’s a perspective that challenges the fairytale notion of “happily ever after,” replacing it with a more pragmatic, almost logistical, view of relationships.
This isn’t to say his marriage to Cardi B lacked meaning. On the contrary, their union was a whirlwind of passion, creativity, and, most importantly, family. They tied the knot in a private ceremony in September 2017, and their love story unfolded in front of millions. They welcomed three beautiful children—Kulture, Wave, and Blossom—who are now the undeniable focus of their lives. Yet, despite the highs, their journey was consistently plagued by challenges, with public arguments, cheating allegations, and even a previous divorce filing in 2020 that was later withdrawn.
The latest divorce filing in July 2024, just two months before their youngest child, Blossom, was born, seems to be the final chapter. And for Offset, it’s a chapter he’s ready to close. He shared his new perspective on the temporary nature of relationships, stating, “Everything is temporary. I’ve been through it, so I know. Now, I don’t want to put that expectation on the future anymore.”
His words reflect a profound shift in thinking. Instead of searching for permanence in another person, he’s finding it in himself and his family. He’s embracing the idea that some relationships, no matter how intense or significant, are meant to be for a season, not a lifetime. This newfound wisdom isn’t just about his personal life; it’s also reflected in his music. His latest solo album, KIARI, is a testament to this evolution. The final track, he confirms, is a heartfelt ode to moving on with grace and peace. “It’s about moving on in peace. It’s all love and peace. I just want to close that chapter because it’s time to move on,” he explained in a recent interview.
While he is firm about his decision to move forward, there’s no bitterness in his tone. He maintains a deep respect for the time he shared with Cardi B, acknowledging, “It was a beautiful thing that it was. But it shouldn’t be a forever subject for both of us. It’s over.” This mature and respectful approach to an ending is a powerful lesson for anyone navigating a breakup. It proves that you can honor a past relationship without being tethered to it forever.
Offset’s candidness extends beyond his own experiences. He also offered some blunt and honest advice for those contemplating marriage. He stressed that a successful marriage requires a profound readiness to “change your whole life” and accept responsibility for a partner. His words serve as a wake-up call for anyone who views marriage as a simple next step. “Unless you’re willing to change everything, otherwise, focus on your career and yourself first,” he advised. This is a timely and valuable message in a world where the pressure to get married can often overshadow the immense commitment it requires.
For now, Offset’s focus is on his music career and, most importantly, his three children. He’s a father first and an artist second. Similarly, Cardi B is pushing forward with her own demanding schedule of events and new projects. While the details of their co-parenting agreement have yet to be made public, there’s hope among fans that they will continue to raise their children in a civil and loving environment.
In a world saturated with the pursuit of eternal love, Offset’s perspective is a breath of fresh air. He’s not promising a grand, romantic future with a new partner. Instead, he’s promising something more real: a commitment to his own growth, his children, and his career. His decision to walk away from the institution of marriage is a powerful statement about his identity and priorities. It shows that he’s a man who knows what he wants, what he’s been through, and where he’s going. For anyone who has ever felt the pressure to conform to traditional relationship norms, his words are a powerful reminder that sometimes, the most courageous path is the one you forge for yourself. He has closed the book on one chapter and is ready to write the next, unburdened by the expectation of “happily ever after,” and instead, focused on the mission that truly matters: his family and his art.
